SEOUL, April 1 (AJP) — “Roasted sweet potato.” “Yes.”
“Hamster Prince!” “Yes.”
“Homebody.” “Yes.”
It’s 8pm Tuesday and organizers in a café in the Gwanak district of southern Seoul have started a roll call of participants, using their nicknames.
One by one, people share what they plan to accomplish that day. “I’ll finish the book I started last week.” “I’ll wrap up a blog post.” “I’ll revise my thesis.”
Then comes the rule. “No talking for the next two hours,” says Choi Kyong-won, 28, one of the organizers.
Within seconds, the room has fallen silent. The only sounds are keyboards tapping and pages turning. Some use laptops, others tablets. A few put on lectures, while others pull out journals.
Choi says the habit of simply declaring a goal creates the pressure needed to follow through. “Once you say what you’ll do, you feel accountable. It helps you focus,” she says.
The concept, also known in the United States and the United Kingdom as “Admin Night” and “Life Admin Party,” has gained traction as a practical way to tackle everyday responsibilities.
Originally, the concept referred to setting aside time to complete routine administrative tasks, such as managing emails, organizing schedules, and handling paperwork. More recently, it has evolved into a broader format where participants work on self-development or personal projects.
The approach is closely linked to the psychological concept of “body doubling,” a behavioral strategy in which the mere presence of others enhances focus and task execution. The subtle sense of being observed creates a form of accountability, discouraging distractions and encouraging sustained concentration.
Kwak Keum-joo, a professor of psychology at Seoul National University, says this reflects a broader psychological mechanism similar to social facilitation, where the presence of others enhances performance, even among strangers.
“Even unfamiliar others can motivate us,” she says. “It’s a form of voluntary solitude, being alone but not entirely disconnected.”
For many in their 20s and 30s, Admin Night represents a shift in lifestyle. Instead of after-work social drinking, participants choose structured time to complete tasks. What began as early-morning “miracle routines” has extended into the evening, reflecting a broader “productive living” trend.
At its core, the appeal lies in a balance: being together with other people but without interference.
Participants in the café say they turned to Admin Night for its efficiency. Unlike traditional study groups or book clubs, the format minimizes personal interaction and is designed to keep individuals focused on their own tasks within a fixed time frame.
The sessions operate on a nickname basis, with limited interaction aside from the brief sharing of goals at the start and equally brief post- mortem at the end. While some participants are regulars, the atmosphere remains centered on individual work rather than relationship-building.
Co-organizer Cho Hyun-jun, 32, a YouTuber and freelancer, says the idea grew out of his own experience working alone after graduating during the pandemic.
“Working independently, I often found myself in environments that weren’t conducive to focus,” he says. “I started gathering people in similar situations about four years ago, initially as a study group.”
The shift to fully online interactions during COVID-19 reinforced the need for offline spaces, he says. Having spent most of his junior and senior years at university engaged in remote study, he says the lack of in-person interaction has shaped how his generation approaches relationships.
Choi says young people tend to prefer clear boundaries between work and personal life. They favor purpose-driven interactions, and prioritizing individual goals over group dynamics.
“In many groups, socializing can blur the original purpose,” she says. “As casual conversation grows, focus fades. We aimed to stay true to the group’s function.”
The sessions are held on Tuesdays and Thursdays, and have run for more than eight rounds to date. Participants include office workers, students and freelancers in their 20s and 30s, with the community now exceeding 100 members.
“A sense of being watched” drives productivity
Participants often describe the experience in simple terms: a feeling of being “watched.”
They bring tasks from travel planning and video editing to academic writing and job applications that share a common thread of work that is personal and has been out off for too long.
Cho says the most notable moments are when participants stay fully focused throughout the session. “Seeing people remain focused for two straight hours without leaving their seats show we have tapped into a real need,” he says.
“Not alone, but not about relationships”
The appeal of the gathering extends beyond productivity to its emotional impact.
“When I come here, I feel reassured seeing others living just as diligently,” says Cho, adding that many participants report a boost in self-esteem.
Choi says many young people feel fatigued by relationships and instead find comfort in interactions that remain brief and low commitment.
“There’s no need to impress anyone or expend emotional energy, which makes it less burdensome,” she says.
Experts say the shift reflects broader changes in how younger generations approach relationships.
Kwak says the tendency to avoid emotionally demanding interactions predates the pandemic but was significantly reinforced by it.
“There was already a tendency to avoid emotionally draining relationships,” she says. “But COVID-19 strengthened it, as people had fewer chances to meet and became more used to limited, controlled interactions.”
She notes that many students spent their university years almost entirely online, shaping a preference for more structured and less demanding forms of connection.
At the same time, she says, young people are not rejecting relationships altogether, but redefining them. They seek connection, but without the burden of deep emotional investment.
A global shift toward low-commitment connections
The trend is not unique to South Korea. Similar formats, including coworking sessions, silent study clubs and “deep work” meetups, have been gaining traction in the United States and Europe, particularly as remote work reshapes daily routines and highlights the limits of working alone.
According to the OECD, face-to-face interactions have declined since the COVID-19 pandemic, particularly among younger people.
At the same time, the rise of remote work has intensified both flexibility and isolation. A 2025 report by Gallup found that about 25% of remote workers experience daily loneliness, significantly higher than those working on-site.
This has coincided with rapid growth in shared work formats. Globally, there are now around 42,000 coworking spaces serving more than 5 million users, reflecting rising demand for flexible, low-commitment work environments.
Digital alternatives have also emerged. Platforms such as Focusmate and Flow Club now offer “virtual body doubling,” where users keep their cameras on while working alongside others online to maintain focus.
Global coworking reports suggest such spaces can help reduce isolation, providing a sense of community without requiring deep social ties.
Kwak says that young South Koreans may be at the forefront of this shift. “They are practical and selective, maintaining boundaries while still seeking connection,” she says. “It’s a more efficient and, in many ways, a more mature and wise approach.”
Two hours, loosely connected
“It’s 9:50 p.m. The session is over. Let’s go around and share how it went.”
As the alarm rings, participants briefly reflect. “I finished half the book I had planned to read over eight weeks,” says Lee Seung-hyun, 27. “Seeing others focus motivated me.”
“I think I’ll keep going when I get home,” says Jang Hye-lee, 26.
As the sharing ends, people quietly pack up their bags and step out into the night, heading off in different directions.
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